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Adoption:
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A
Warning About
Open Adoption In most states, a mother does not have the right to enforce any agreements she may have made with her child's adopters. Even in states where open adoption contracts are considered legal, children will not be returned to their families when the adopters break their agreements. Do not fall into the open
adoption trap!
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Open adoptions are often promised to parents who are
reluctant to part with their infants. However, there are no
guarantees that the adopters will keep their promise to stay in touch.
It has been estimated that the majority of open adoptions end
up being closed by the adopters (according to Heather Carlini, founder
of The Carlini Institute which trains post-adoption counselors).
Organizations that support and make money from adoption, like the National Council for Adoption, have begun "training" professionals who work with pregnant women to promote adoption to their clients. Expectant mothers should be wary of anyone who tries to sell them on the idea of "making an adoption plan." Crisis pregnancy centers frequently offer services that make them appealing to young, single, or poor women who fear they might be pregnant. These centers often station themselves near more reputable women's health care clinics and seek out women who may be considering abortion. They usually have some sort of religious or anti-choice affiliation and will promote adoption to their clients. Rather than visiting a CPC, you can purchase a pregnancy test kit from a local dollar store and make an appointment with a midwife or doctor once your pregnancy is confirmed. |
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