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    Adoption is a big business in the United States.  As of 2000, an independent research study revealed that the adoption industry was earning $1.4 billion each year -- and the numbers have only grown since then.  Like most corporate giants, the adoption industry is not immune to corruption.  Each year, mothers and fathers report feeling exploited by adoption agencies, lawyers, social workers, and adopting couples.  Read on to learn important facts about adoption...

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Protect Yourself &

Your Baby 

A baby is born with the innate ability to recognize his or her mother by her voice, scent, and body rhythms.  Being separated from her is traumatic and creates a lasting psychological wound (see The Primal Wound by Nancy Newton Verrier).

 

 Resources and Support for Families
A Warning About 

Open Adoption

In most states, a mother does not have the right to enforce any agreements she may have made with her child's adopters.  Even in states where open adoption contracts are considered legal, children will not be returned to their families when the adopters break their agreements.

Do not fall into the open adoption trap!


     Open adoptions are often promised to parents who are reluctant to part with their infants.  However, there are no guarantees that the adopters will keep their promise to stay in touch.  It has been estimated that the majority of open adoptions end up being closed by the adopters (according to Heather Carlini, founder of The Carlini Institute which trains post-adoption counselors).

     Organizations that support and make money from adoption, like the National Council for Adoption, have begun "training" professionals who work with pregnant women to promote adoption to their clients.  Expectant mothers should be wary of anyone who tries to sell them on the idea of "making an adoption plan."

     Crisis pregnancy centers frequently offer services that make them appealing to young, single, or poor women who fear they might be pregnant.  These centers often station themselves near more reputable women's health care clinics and seek out women who may be considering abortion.  They usually have some sort of religious or anti-choice affiliation and will promote adoption to their clients. Rather than visiting a CPC, you can purchase a pregnancy test kit from a local dollar store and make an appointment with a midwife or doctor once your pregnancy is confirmed.  
 
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12/18/2007
Welcome to the new and improved Adoption: Legalized Lies website. Enjoy your visit and feel free to contact us with any questions.

 

12/08/2007
Please note that we use only Honest Adoption Language on this site.  Words like birthmother, birthfather, birth parents, birth family, birth mother, birth father, and adoptive family are here for search engine purposes only.  Read more about Honest Adoption Language.    

12/01/2007
Please take a moment to visit the websites of some families currently fighting the adoption industry for the return of their children.  Stephanie & Evelyn Bennett, Chris & Madison, and Cody & Baby O'Dea.